It is not an either or situation.
Not a non zero sum game.
This is a lose lose scenario. There is no one side wins by the punishment of the other for their actions.
Fans anger, the mob mentality, tends to ignore the human element and human cost on both sides.
We have no idea about this kid behind the wheel, no sense of whether they are a bad egg, or some really nice kid who got carried away in a moment of insanity, it is what kids do, make dumb decisions without thinking them through, prefrontal cortex yadda yadda....